It seems I have made the same resolutions for the past, oh, I’ll say ten years, and nothing ever happens.
But 2018 WILL be different.
Why? Well, February will mark 2 years since I separated from XAH. I’ve grown and healed so much during this time. I can tell that I am no longer in the thick of the healing phase. I am ready to move on. So, here is my list of 2018 resolutions/focuses/goals for the year. I plan to revisit this post monthly and provide updates on how everything is going (hopefully to keep me more accountable!)
Beauty/Fashion: This may seem like a silly category for goals, but after the beating my self-esteem took over the last 15 years, focusing on this area of my life has really made me feel better.
- Master curling/waving my hair
- Master applying/wearing false lashes
- Simplify my wardrobe and come up with staple pieces
- Get my face lasered by dermatologist to remove age spots
- Stop wearing my glasses all the time and start wearing my contacts
Motherhood
- Take both kids on at least one vacation
- Spend more alone time with each child
- Less ipad/screen time for the kids and more outdoor activities
- Come up with more crafts and other types of enrichment activities to do with the kids
- Spend more time actually playing with my children
Social/Relationships
- Go on at least 12 dates (yikes!)
- Go to at least 6 events through my Single Parents Meetup group
- Have people over to my house for drinks/appetizers. Socialize more with the neighbors
Business
- Stop the feeling of constant overwhelm in my business by being more focused/productive during the workday
- Make all of my quarterly tax payments to the IRS on time
- Gross at least $150,000 this year
- Establish a monthly newsletter to send to prospective referral sources and former clients
- Read at least 12 business-related books
Financial
- Get my retirement account up-to-date
- Establish savings accounts for vacation and house improvements
- Less spending in general (aka simplify/life more minimalistic)
- Get a new car
Health
- Reach weight goal of 105 pounds by continuing intermittent fasting and lowering intake of sugar/carbs
- Wash face, brush teeth, and floss every night
- Workout consistently: at least 3 days per week
- Do yoga
- Focus on cooking more healthy meals for the kids
- Be in bed by 9pm consistently
- Meditate daily
Personal
- Overall, minimize clutter and live more simply. Don’t buy things I don’t need. Make a constant effort to get rid of clutter/old items
- Photography and memorykeeping: Take more photos, improve in my photography skills, complete a 2017 scrapbook, keep photography blog updated, start making videos
- Wake up at 5:30 am to give myself a better morning and some time to journal/blog/write
- Social media: less time on Facebook and less posting
- Be more thoughtful and plan ahead for things like gift-giving
- One-by-one, accomplish house tasks and work towards decorating and having a polished home
- Take at least one vacation without the kids (perhaps with a new romantic partner?!)
- Face fear, worry less about what others think
- Journal and record my moments of gratitude daily
- Update this blog regularly
- Less watching tv and more reading
- Read at least two fiction books for personal entertainment
What are some of your resolutions? I wish you all the best for happiness and peace in 2018!